A journal Post:
"judgemental/hippocritical
I got two things to say, one is that 90% of the chicks on the web are over judgemental, and 100% are hippocritical. Of course if you know me and my thoughts, that's not really a big insult, everyones judgemental and hippocritical, but I'm just trying to point some things out. First of all, I've tried every approach short of "nice tits, want to fuck" and I have yet to get a response, from anyone, about anything. I'm not writting people saying, look if you wanna date here's my number, no I'm writting people saying, hey, if you wanna chat, maybe find out if we have anything really in common other than some made up bullshit match scale, talk to me, maybe we'll enjoy talking to each other. Still no responses. Even if a hideous girl were to write me conversationally, I'd at least take the time to respond and find out if I could enjoy TALKING with them. Of course that doesn't even happen, chicks on the internet don't message guys, their too buseing being bombarded by the classic "nice tits want to fuck" guys, supposedly. But isn't it really easy to sort those guys out from the real people, I mean, if the guys 45, balding, and spends 90% of every conversation talking about physical features, *lightbulb*, there ya go. So cut us guys that are looking at your profiles, reading about you, finding a common interest, and working to build that or other common interests to see if some sort of friendship or other connection might be reached, a little slack. So moveing on to the hippocritical part. I have no problem gettings girls to talk to me in person, when I approach them. In fact, I tend to be very succesful, I'm just shy and only talk to girls that are through friends or work networks (because I don't like coming off as that cheesy, I'm trying to hit on you guy, every girl you talk to in public treats you like). You know the funny thing is, not to be self absorbed here, but I think looks have something to do with it. For women who say it's all about personality, if I have a bad picture up on my profile or I'm out dressed to shit it sure is hard to get the time of day (and I mean literally), but if I purty myself up, hmm, your more friendly. Okay some girls aren't being hippocritical cause they acknowledge looks are important blah blah, but nonetheless I'm still sick of hearing chicks bitch about guys without personality or character. I know a hundred guys with personality and character, 90 of em can't get laid for shit. My dumbass friends whoms idea of hitting on a chick is, "hey, your hot, you wanna come back to my place" well if they're good lucking it works. I don't want that would give in to that shit, cause I used to be that way, but I'm past that in my life, I believe anyways. If you're sitting there thinking "wow this guy bitches and moans alot", no, not really, I'm just bored of getting on this sight, wasting my time actually spending time trying to find quality girls I think I could get along with and talk to and messaging them and getting NO fucking response, not even a polite, "you sound like somoene I wouldn't get along with". Frankly, I've run out of what seems like decent girls on this sight, and apparently there wasn't a decent one among them to respond. So yeah, I'll bitch and moan, but what else am I gonna do, write YOU so you can ignore me, nah, I'd rather just write in this journal, that no one probably ever reads, and get the same response rate. The most important pat of this message though, is were not all jackasses/horndog/pigs. If we take the time to talk about something we both have in common, it's probably because we're looking to make more than just a physical connection, so tell us it's 10:37 pm, and feel free to talk about what you like, we're obviousely messaging you because we like what you like. Bon chance to all"
